NAOMI:UKO NASWEYE UMUYAYA

Naomi, umukobwa w’imyaka 18 yajyaga adufasha kurera abana rimwe na rimwe. Ariko muri ano amezi ashize yari asigaye avanga akazi k’ubuyaya n’ak’umugore.

Umunsi navuye ku kazi hakiri kare mbere y’uko umugore ataha , ninjira mu cyumba cyanjye ntakoma kugira ngo ntakangura abana. Ngerageza guhamagara Naomi ariko sinumva ansubiza. Ndakomeza nzamuka escalier mpingutse mu cyumba cyanjye n’umugore, nsanga Naomi yiryamiye ku buriri bwacu. Yambaye imyenda umugore wanjye ararana,yageretseho umupira nkunda gusohokana, arimo kuringaniza neza umusego n’umutwe we. Yahise akubitwa n’inkuba, aramwara , atangira guhagaruka ku gitanda ansaba imbabazi. Ntibyamworoheye guhita ahisha amabere ye kuko atari yigeze afunga amapesi yo mu gatuza.

Nabuze aho ndeba n’uko mbyifatamo. Numvise nshyutswe, ariko numvise ntacyo byamarira mfatiye ikemezo mu mushyukwe.
Nabuze icyo mvuga n’icyo nkora. Nicara ku buriri iruhande rwe mubaza icyo yakoraga mu gitanda yambaye imyenda yacu. Ntiyansubiza, bisaba ko mbimuhatira.

Naomi yambwiye ko buri gihe yambonaga nk’umuntu mukuru, nka nyirarume ariko umwaka ushize ngo yumvise akuze atakiri umwana, bityo uko ambona na byo birahinduka. Yambwiye ko yatangiye kujya arota ari umugore wanjye. Yari amaze kuryama ku buriri bwacu inshuro ebyiri mbere y’uko mbimenya, ariko ashimishwa no kubona ameze nk’umugore wanjye. Gusa yamwajwe nuko natekereza ko ari umukozi udafite icyo yitayeho kandi udashoboye akazi.

Maze kumenya ikibimutera nahisemo kumubabarira no kuba nsohotse ngo muhe akanya ko kwambara imyenda ye. Yahise yishima, aransimbukira aransoma. Ikanzu yo kurarana ntiyari imufashe neza, ihita igwa ubwo yarasimbutse ngo ansome, maze mbona amabere ye meza akomeye ashinze mu gatuza, ariko ndihangana ndasohoka.

Nyuma y’ibyo, njye na Naomi twaregeranye, tuba inshuti kuko hari ibanga twari duhuriyeho twembi.

Hashize nk’ukwezi n’igice nongera gutaha hakiri kare. Namusanze yicaye ku ntebe n’abana areba TV. Namwicaye iruhande muterera akenya nti “Noneho ntugikinira mu buriri” Ati”Oya sindongera.”
Ndongera nti”Ndabona umaze gukura”
Nawe ati”Ubu se urabona ndi mwiza? Amabere yanjye ni mato. Umugore wawe andusha amabere manini, nambaye soutien ye iba nini.” Namushubije ko ubwiza bw’umukobwa butareberwa ku mabere gusa mwibutsa kandi kutajya yipima mu myenda y’umugore wanjye. Ngeze aho mubwira ko ntashimishijwe n’aho ikiganiro kerekeza. Aranyitegereza, andeba mu ipantaro hafi y’igitsina abona nashyutswe ku buryo bigaragarira mu ipantalo aransubiza ati”Ibyo uvugisha umunwa ipantaro yawe irabihakana!” Numvise ntunguwe nti”Sinakubwiye ko umwana amaze gukura!”

Nahise nzamuka mu cyumba cyanjye kuruhuka. Ariko nakomeje gutekereza kuri Naomi, ndetse iminsi ikurikiyeho nagiye ndota turimo guhuza igitsina. Ahubwo nahoraga nsenga ngo ntazavaho mvuga izina rye mu nzozi, kuko ntari gukira umugore wanjye. Ariko ndakeka ko ntigeze muvuga mu izina kuko nta kintu umugore arabimbazaho.

Nyuma y’aho nk’ibyumweru bibiri, umugore wanjye yatumwe muri misiyo y’akazi yagombaga kumaramo iminsi ibiri. Ambwira ko nta kibazo Naomi ahari kandi ko azamfasha mu byo nzakenera byose. Naratangaye kuko ubundi Naomi yakoraga ataha, ariko hano umugore yavugaga ko agomba kurara mu rugo kugira ngo antekere n’icyayi cya mu gitondo. Umugore yambwiye ko nta kibazo ko Naomi ari umwana mwiza. Ndamusubiza nti “Ni umwana mwiza nanjye ndabizi.”

Kuri uwo mugoroba tumaze gufungura, abana bifuje gukina nanjye. Maze bafata intebe y’urwegamiro bayigira inteko y’umwami, bashaka izindi ntebe, baniyegereza uburingiti. Barangije batekereza inkuru ivuga ukuntu umukobwa mwiza w’igikomangoma yatabawe n’umuhungu w’intwari, akamukura mu maboko y’umwami mubi.

Ubwo mba umwami, Naomi aba umukobwa w’igikomangoma, bamwambika ikamba. Abana bose bahinduka umusore w’intwari. Nagombaga kuryama hejuru ya Naomi, nkamufata amaboko abana bakaza kumunkuraho. Ariko abana bagombaga kudusiga muryamyeho kandi muziritse bakajya mu kindi cyumba, nk’aho ari mu kindi gihugu, bakaza gutabara hashize nk’iminota itanu.
Nagumye muryamye hejuru mureba mu maso, mu gatuza ndeba imoko z’amabere ye mu ishati yaboneranaga. Nahise nshyukwa.Abana ntibatinze kugaruka bamunkuraho ariko nashize. Hashize akanya bajya kuryama. Dukomeza kuganira, dukina amakarita, nyuma akenera kureba film. Iyo video yari iteye ubwoba, maze akajya anyegera akanshyira umutwe mu gituza ngo atabona scene iteye ubwoba. Nanjye nkamuzengurutsa ukuboko. Yasa nushaka kwigira yo nanjye nkamurekura ati “Ntundekure iriya film iteye ubwoba.” Ubwo ndongera murenza ukuboko kugwa ku ibere rye mbura uko mbyifatamo. Nawe anyegama ku bibero ku buryo ukuboko kwe kwari ku mayasha yanjye intoki zaguye ku mboro. Nari maze gushyukwa cyane kubera umwanya n’uburyo twari tumaze twicaranye. Natangiye gukorakora ibere rye. Nawe yatangiye kunkorakora ku mboro ariko ndamubuza nti “Have wikora ibyo. Ndi umugabo ukuze, ibyo wabikorana n’umusore mungana.” Yahise ambwira ko abyumva kandi ko abisobanukiwe, ariko yambwiye ko yumva anshaka cyane ko nubwo tutahuza igitsina bisanzwe nibura twakoresha umunwa cyangwa intoki.

Umwana w’umukobwa yahise andeba mu maso afata imashini y’ipantaro yanjye atangira kuyifungura ankururira ku gitanda. Numvise mpinze umushyitsi, anyegereza ku buriri ndyama ngaramye na we anyunamaho ankuramo ikariso afata imboro yanjye mu ntoki, andeba mu maso ambaza uko babigenza kuko bwari ubwa mbere yegereye umugabo. Twari twumvikanye nta mboro ngombakumushyira mu gituba kuko sinifuzaga kumutesha ubusugi bwe.
Twahisemo gukoresha umunwa. Namubwiye ko:

1)abikora nk’ubishaka

2)kundeba mu maso no gukurikirana uburyo ntakamo

3)kunkorakora hose:ku mutwe w’imboro, imboro yose ndetse n’amabya

4)kunsoma imboro acyambaye ikariso.

5)kunyereka amabere ye n’igituba no kubinshyira hafi ku buryo mbigeraho bitangoye.

6)kugerageza kumira imboro yanjye

7.Kumira amasohoro yanjye.

Uko yagafashe imboro yanjye mu ntoki ayikorakora gahoro gahoro ari nako arimo kundeba yumva amahame yanjye yitonze nakunze uburyo namubonaga yambaye ubusa imbere yanjye ku buryo ihame rya karindwi narivuze ndimogusohora, nawe yahise ashyira imboro mu kanwa amasohoro yose amushiriramo.

Maze gusohora yahise akomeza gushyira mu bikorwa amahame yanjye ariko nari maze kunanirwa namusabye ko aba aretse nkaruhuka.

Yaragiye anzanira ka byeri, andyama iruhande, asomaho arampereza, ahita ansoma ataramira byeri yanyoye ingwa mu kanwa nanjye nkomeza kumukorakora ku mabere. Nyuma y’iminota mike nari nongeye gushyukwa imboro yabaye nk’igiti. Narahagurutse, ampfukama imbere, andeba mu maso atamira imboro yanjye, atangira gushyira mu bikorwa ilisiti y’ibyo namubwiye ko nkunda kandi nari niteguye noneho. Yariye imboro yanjye nk’iminota 30 nanjye mufata umusatsi w’inyuma ntangira gusa n’umuswera mu kanwa. Nabonye afunguye amaso cyane mubaza niba nta kibazo.
Yambwiye ko ari uko yishimye cyane ndakomeza. Sinatinze gusohora na none nawe aramira arangije aranshima cyane. Umukobwa w’isugi w’imyaka 18 w’igitangaza anshimira ko musweye mu kanwa.

Iryo joro twese twaraye mu cyumba cy’abashyitsi. Negutse negera igituba cyendagisoma, ndakirigata, nkirisha iminwa yanjye, maze si ugusohora arasara nanjye ndamwihorera yamara kurangiza nkikomereza akongera agasohora. Yumva aranshimye kandi arankunze cyane ansaba ko muswera atega igituba amfata imboro ngo nsyiremo. Ndamuhakanira, noneho ansaba ko namuswera mu kibuno. Mubaza niba mu by’ukuri abishaka avuga ko ari uko nta bundi buryo abona yanshimishamo. Nahise nsinzira arimo kundigata amabya maze gusohora ku nshuro ya gatatu. Bigeze mu gicuku, nagiye ku buriri bwanjye, nza gukangurwa n’umugore avuye ku bitaro. Yasanze Naomi yarangije guteka icyayi. Namubwiye ko nta kibazo imirimo YOSE yayishoboye.